There’s something about real time that makes it extremely important to me.
I’ve thought about (and even tried) writing batches of posts, something I’m fully capable of doing. When I do it, my brain bursts with ideas… but that only continues for as long as I write a batch of posts, every day. When a few more days have passed, I lose interest in what I wrote several days ago and I want to write more now; the value in the writing is in the right-now sharing, the reactions inside this 48 hours, the interactions that result. If I have a post queued up for every single day between now and the end of January, I feel let down that I don’t have something to write right now and post right now, for each of those days that is already filled. I miss the real time experience of having that conversation with the audience.
For some reason, I don’t feel this way about recorded music; I feel connected to the future audience when I make the recording. When it’s music, it somehow becomes timeless. It’s a conversation without words, and it lasts forever. But I do feel this way about recorded monologues and dialogues. That conversation feels most important right now, even if the value of the conversation goes on forever… for me, if I don’t experience the conversation now, I lose the real time value.
When I work with someone or help them with something, there’s a big emotional benefit (at least to me) in doing it real time, on the phone or (even better) on video chat. We can do it through email and that’s fine — and enjoyable, and engaging, and productive. But it’s much better with voices and moving pictures. And of course, nothing trumps being in-person. Emails can lag; email threads are more easily interrupted. The boost and focus that come from a real time conversation is much stronger, even if the work itself isn’t contained solely in that real time conversation.
Have you ever felt this way? Is it different for you?
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