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	<title>Comments on: The Balance: My Stuff, Your Stuff</title>
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		<title>By: Leila</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 23:52:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Lovely post M! Yep a difficult area to straggle. Oooo. Yep you see? Lots of glorious imperfection abounds with me! Anyway it&#039;s a difficult area to tackle and define in advance of doing it I guess you&#039;re saying. We learn as we go. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Think I remember reading somewere about not needing to be transparent on your blog or  in your biz about everything. Sharing what&#039;s relevant and helpful for your clients. So I def agree that being imperfect, flesh and blood, helps us all to practise self acceptance and compassion and trust that we can get great stuff done - even if we are less than perfect.  That gives me hope anyway. Being around people who are too shiny and new make me uncomfortable and concerned that I need to keep up a huge front. So thx for this post!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And I&#039;ve just started writing and with no clear intention as yet - so lots of mess and showing who I really am. And I have lots of concern people are going to get caught in a dynamic of trying to look after me since im sharing so much that is personl about me! I&#039;m put really clear boundaries around my comment bit though to help. All very work in progress. As it should be! But still. Baby steps&#039;ll get us figuring this thing out.</description>
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<p>Lovely post M! Yep a difficult area to straggle. Oooo. Yep you see? Lots of glorious imperfection abounds with me! Anyway it&#39;s a difficult area to tackle and define in advance of doing it I guess you&#39;re saying. We learn as we go. </p>
<p>Think I remember reading somewere about not needing to be transparent on your blog or  in your biz about everything. Sharing what&#39;s relevant and helpful for your clients. So I def agree that being imperfect, flesh and blood, helps us all to practise self acceptance and compassion and trust that we can get great stuff done &#8211; even if we are less than perfect.  That gives me hope anyway. Being around people who are too shiny and new make me uncomfortable and concerned that I need to keep up a huge front. So thx for this post!</p>
<p>And I&#39;ve just started writing and with no clear intention as yet &#8211; so lots of mess and showing who I really am. And I have lots of concern people are going to get caught in a dynamic of trying to look after me since im sharing so much that is personl about me! I&#39;m put really clear boundaries around my comment bit though to help. All very work in progress. As it should be! But still. Baby steps&#39;ll get us figuring this thing out.</p>
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		<title>By: Juli Fuchs-Musgrave</title>
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		<dc:creator>Juli Fuchs-Musgrave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 18:28:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent! This is the really hard part about being human with other humans. I really did listen to all the things I&#039;ve taught my children. &quot;Listen carefully before you speak.&quot; &quot;Hear the person--not the viewpoint.&quot; &quot;Sit on your &#039;anger bone&#039; and let your heart speak first.&quot; and of course the old fav, &quot;Before you accuse--look to yourself, your motives and your thinking.&quot; &lt;br&gt;I really did listen--I really do believe those things. And then I am confronted with some atrocity, some global smack against humanity, some &quot;STUPID&quot; act of ignorance or pettiness, and BANG--I&#039;ve moved right through all my checks. &lt;br&gt;My only answer is to remember that being sorry for pain caused also works inward. Just saying sorry never does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent! This is the really hard part about being human with other humans. I really did listen to all the things I&#39;ve taught my children. &#8220;Listen carefully before you speak.&#8221; &#8220;Hear the person&#8211;not the viewpoint.&#8221; &#8220;Sit on your &#39;anger bone&#39; and let your heart speak first.&#8221; and of course the old fav, &#8220;Before you accuse&#8211;look to yourself, your motives and your thinking.&#8221; <br />I really did listen&#8211;I really do believe those things. And then I am confronted with some atrocity, some global smack against humanity, some &#8220;STUPID&#8221; act of ignorance or pettiness, and BANG&#8211;I&#39;ve moved right through all my checks. <br />My only answer is to remember that being sorry for pain caused also works inward. Just saying sorry never does.</p>
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